My grandfather’s. He passed away many years ago, while I was still in school and I haven’t thought about him in a long time.
But it is raining in Bangalore today and that makes me think of dadu (grandpa) and his chaata (umbrella). He always carried it along — a big, black, ungainly one — wherever he went. Sometimes others laughed at him because of that.
‘Dadu, why do you always carry an umbrella with you?’ I asked him once.
‘Because it may rain.’
‘But it is a sunny day today.’
‘Well then it will protect me if the sun gets too hot. And what if it does rain? Who will look a fool then?’
‘What if the sun stays mild and it doesn’t rain either?’
‘Then I will use it as a walking stick. I can also chase any stray cows and goats out of my way.’
That was grandpa for you –a logical man, though he was not very educated and had lived in the village all his life.
Some think my atheism is all new fangled nonsense, born out of reading too many of the wrong kind of books. But in truth, my first brush with atheism was perhaps as an 8 year old.
My grandmother would host a grand Laxmi puja (worship of Goddess Laxmi) every year at our home in the village. Dadu helped diligently with all the preparations.
‘Will Goddess Laxmi bless us all?’
‘There is no Goddess Laxmi.’
I was too appalled to react. Finally I gathered my wits about me and asked,
‘Well why do you worship her then?’
‘Do I have a choice? Your grandmother will kill me’he said, with eyes full of love and fear of the woman who’d been his companion for close to half a century!
‘But…what about all the other Gods and Goddesses? Surely they exist! Who created everything? That mango tree? Those rice fields?’
‘Well who created God then?’
‘But, but…erm…’
Dadu always had the last word.
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This post is the 21st in a series of 26 posts that I am writing throughout the month of April as part of the A to Z challenge2016.
I choose umbrella too – there must be so many beautiful and sad stories that happened beneath an umbrella.
Im blogging from Fill the cracks and Moondustwriter’s Blog. Happy A to Zing!
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Yes, that’s a sad, sweet thought 🙂
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I would be labeled a Protestant Christian and yet I don’t attend church. My son is atheist. My oldest sister is Morman. My father was Catholic and my mother Methodist. I have friends who are Jewish, Muslim, Wicca, and other “religions”. I don’t base my “connections” with people on whether they worship a higher power or not. I do, however, base my association with people on whether their spirits are kind, compassionate, courteous ones who will enrich my life in some manner because of presence…not attempt to tear it down…and to me that is all that matters. You and your lovely posts enrich my life on a certain level and I thank you for that!
Take care,
Donna L Martin
http://www.donnalmartin.com
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Beautifully put, Donna. I would agree with every word…glad to have met kindred souls like you because of A2Z …my biggest takeaway from this challenge. Thank you for your kind words 🙂
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Beautiful memories. Your grandfather’s logic sounds logical 🙂 as to the umbrella, he would have done well in England. Our weather is changing every couple of minutes. One definitely needs an umbrella for every occasion.
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Grandpa would be glad of this support for his umbrella 😀
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I believe in God, only because no person had ever given me a logical explanation of how we all got here. Therefore, I have to attribute it to God. But I respect each person’s choice to believe or not to believe.
Piper Presley
U is for Unusual Perspective
http://www.presleyromance.com/blog/unusual-perspective-blogging-from-a-to-z-challenge
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Now that is also a very logical point of view, I must say!
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Very well written and told. loved to read it, that’s actually the story of all the Dadus(grandpas). Khoob Sundor
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Haha…true 🙂
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